Saturday, August 05, 2006

He met his girlfriend's father and yet he is still alive...

Where to begin? As usual, so much has happened.

I left Patrick's house with a tearful goodbye at 7 in the morning on August the 3rd. It was reminiscent of a sad, sad movie from a time forgotten. He and I pressed against the opposite sides of the cold and unbending glass of the bullet train's window, crying and desperately trying to touch one last time. As the train departed he ran in a fleeting attempt of catching me and keeping me forever, alas, the train can go up to 200 kilometers per hour and he can only run up to 157.

All seriousness aside, I owe Patrick a lot. He was a great host and kept me entertained and alive for the 6 or so days I stayed with him.  どうもありがとうございましたパット先輩。 I will send you some more Canada care packages in an attempt to repay you.

Anyways, back to my romantic story:
I arrived with little trouble even though I had to transfer 2 times to different trains. Thanks to my wonderful electronic dictionary I was able to figure out how to say "Which number car is this?" Whether it was accurate Japanese or not didn't matter (for now) as the nice old lady understood me when I talked to her. Once hearing my crap Japanese, her 3 grandchildren decided to swarm around me and spew phrases with reckless abandon, even though I only understood a 1/3rd of what they were saying. So it was a fun trip.

Fumi met me with a little trouble at Hakata station, because she told me to go to the wrong exit and her father (dun dun dunnn) picked us up and drove us to their house. Yoichi-san told me to call him "Fumipapa" which is a nice amicable start and I find he is very funny and silly, kind of like my Dad. We were both sizing each other up and nervous during the ride home as there were a lot of awkward pauses, but I think in terms of still being alive I can say: "mission accomplished".
I met Fumi's mother again, and to my pride (even though it's mostly politeness) she mentioned how I had come a long way in speaking Japanese. I have a little bit. I haven't really learned anything new, I'm just developing confidence in utilizing the language. Which is great, having studied it for 2 years and never really used it. Fumi's brother is a really funny guy as well and is also a bit shy though he doesn't look it. He has the stylings of a very laid-back "cool cat".

The 4th was my birthday and the Sakata family invited over their friends for a party in my honour. It was an amazing time. Yoichi-san insisted upon my having 21 shots of sake. What I had to do was go around and pour each guest a shot (there were 19) and they would pour me one in return. I didn't get very drunk, surprisingly.
That party tested my Japanese language skills quite a bit as I often was called away from Fumi (my active translator) to go speak with her parents and their friends. It was so fun though, and we were able to communicate fairly freely, though not clearly.

Oh, I forgot to say: The weather here is insane. Just-broke-out-of-a-mental-institution-and-is-going-on-a-murderous-rampage insane. I sweat constantly. Everyday the temperature is something like 34 degrees, but nowhere except convenience stores is there air conditioning. My room in Fumi's house (which is HUGE) has a unit, but I'm not spending my days here in couped up in a room.
Tonight is the fireworks festival (hanabi) and I get to dress up and look like a fool in clothing called Jinbee (jeenbay).

I'm sorry I haven't updated in a while. The only internet is in Shougo-san's room and I don't want to bother him.
I will have pictures up in a day or so.
Sorry for the wait, and I hope everything is well back home.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm glad you are getting along well with Fumi's family and that you are practising your Japanese. It sounds like they gave you a wonderful welcome, and it was very thoughtful of them to give you a birthday party! They sound like a fun group. Make sure you take lots of photos.
Is your money situation ok?
Nothing much is new here.
Dad and I leave for Lake Placid on Wed the 9th and return on Sun the 13.Greg is going to St. Catherines tonight to stay at your appt. after visiting Niagara Falls.
Hi to Fumi and her family.
Hugs and kisses to you,
Love Mum x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0

Anonymous said...

Get any typhoon rain today? It was misting horizontally slightly this afternoon followed by a torrential downpour.

Jinbei, dammit!

Anonymous said...

Happy belated birthday Chris! Sounds like you're getting along pretty darn well. Hanabi is pretty fun when you're with a whole bunch of people who are all dressed up as funny as you are! I actually brought 2 yukatas back home with me after the Hanabi festival at the end of July. They're too pretty.

Anonymous said...

Chien:bah!
Mom:Im doing fine thanks.
Pat: Fumi says it's "jinbee"
Melissa: TWO? Isnt that expensive? Or did you get a discount or something?

^ Chris

Anonymous said...

Jinbee じんべえ = nothing.
Jinbei じんべい = 甚平 = clothing.

You say sensee, and I say sensei ...

Anonymous said...

I bought them at Uniqlo. It was like 3000yen each plus 780yen pair of geta. Hot deals <3

Anonymous said...

CHRISTOPHER CHARLTON!

i miss you and i'm glad you're enjoying yourself (i hope your birthday was amazing).

fumi's brother sounds a lot like me- i also have the stylings of a cool-cat.

give fumi a hug for me!

xoxo
greg

Anonymous said...

CHRISTOPHER CHARLTON!

i miss you and i'm glad you're enjoying yourself (i hope your birthday was amazing).

fumi's brother sounds a lot like me- i also have the stylings of a cool-cat.

give fumi a hug for me!

xoxo
greg

Anonymous said...

hi CHRIS ..THIS IS GRAMPS C.
QUITE A TRIP AND EXPERIENCE ,GRAMS
AND I HAVE ENJOYED YOUR JOURNAL
AND PHOTOS ...HAVE NOT HEARD FROM YOU SINCE MEETING FUMI AND FAMILY . ...TAKE CARE ,ENJOY THE BALANCE OF YOUR TRIP ..WILL BE GLAD
TO SEE YOU AT HOME ....LOVE GRAMPS
AND GRAMS ...

Anonymous said...

Why did you reply here?

We can debate somewhere else and when I get back from Japan (2 days).

- Chris

Anonymous said...

To Mr. and Mrs.Charlton and Greg(and Shadow, Kemuri and Kuma)

I just wanted to let you know that Chris left Fukuoka (where I live) at 7am today. He took plane to Tokyo Narita Airport instead of taking train all the way.
I hope you will meet him without any problems at the airport in Toronto.

and Thanks for letting him come visit Japan for the summer! We had a great time together, and now i already miss him a lot.

Im sure he will be so happy to see you all back home^^

Fumi

Anonymous said...

Happy belated b-day chris.
Good to hear you're having a time!

Anonymous said...

Going to update one of these years?